Thursday, February 5, 2015

10 Ways to enjoy winter on a budget

10 ways to enjoy winter on a budget
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Have fun this winter. No matter what your budget is there's something for you.
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Into the great winter world with daring
Into the great winter world with daring
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or a bright beautiful day
or a bright beautiful day
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10 ways to enjoy winter on a budget
Winter has come. It’s been here for a while actually, but, now we've reached those balmy -10 degree Celsius (14 Fahrenheit) days. Let’s get to it. The 10 best ways to enjoy Winter on a budget.
1. Walk and walk and walk. It is gorgeous out. White bright snow and even a few clear paths. Walking is one of the best forms of exercise. It calms and energizes and most people can do it. Make sure you have good sun glasses for those few sunny days.
2. Sledding down hills. Crazy carpets are still only a few dollars or you can check out do it yourself sledshttp://www.apartmenttherapy.com/3-snow-sleds-to-diy-166560. If that doesn't work find an old tire.
3. Cross country skiing, there’s Nordic, and there’s Skate skiing and fun to be had. As with skates there are places to rent skis or check the used goods stores. You want to ensure you have proper technique with a friend, instructor, or you tube video. It makes all the difference between gliding along and having fun and trudging down a path.
4. Find an indoor arboretum, we have one near the zoo, where’s yours? It’s a great way to remember that summer will come. They have great air quality almost as good as walking outside some places even better. Enjoy the warmth.
5. Go to the zoo, it won’t be crowded and there are a number of animals that enjoy this weather. Most zoos have some indoor exhibits where you can warm up and see animals from a more tropical environment.
6. Geocaching, modern day treasure hunting. Do it by yourself, with a partner or a whole family. You can use a GPS or a smart phone. Here is the most beloved and used site http://www.geocaching.com/ but there are others. You put in your postal code or area you want to search, find a location and hunt for it with your GPS. Usually the sites have a small container and there’s the unwritten rule of take something leave something.
7. Go swimming. Preferably in an indoor pool with lots of windows and a hot tub. There are few things as decadent as swimming or sitting in a hot tub when there’s lots of snow outside. Summer is coming and you want to be ready.
8. Skating is great for you and can be very inexpensive. If you have your own skates there are small outdoor rinks that don’t charge at all. Many arenas have free skating some time during the week. Here in Winnipeg we have the longest out door skating trail. You don’t have to be a great skater to have fun.
9. Build a Quincy. Pile snow about 8 feet high, flipping the snow over as you shovel it so it will mix. This doesn't have to be done all at once but it can be. Wait an hour and a half or longer then continue. Put a few sticks in the top about two feet in. Then dig a small entry way. Then dig out the snow till you can see the sticks. Make a snow ‘bed’ on each side or around the inside (except from the entry way. This bed will keep you off the ground and insulated. You don’t have to be a kid to have a snow fort.
10. Snow golf or soccer. It takes a little creativity and a lot of energy and is hilarious. Tip: use larger then normal balls for golf and a brightly coloured ball for soccer. Keep the goals and holes much closer together then normal, much, much closer then normal

Monday, January 19, 2015

How to make fantasies and day dreams into reality

How to make fantasies and day dreams into reality

Photo by digitalart. Published on 11 July 2011

Many of us have reoccurring day dreams or fantasies.  We really need to look into them to find out what the touch stone is. Is it just a day dream or is there something we feel we’re missing or would like more of.  The other way fantasies often come in to play is when we have a dream we do not see as attainable.  Some day dreams or fantasies are just for fun but others actually show us what we truly desire.

One of my on going day dreams used to be that I was a hero.  This was fun and let me know I needed to get using my abilities to do some good. 

Lately I have decided to move to Kelowna, BC.  My immediate response was a fantasy where someone bought the house we’re in, bought all our stuff, and essentially paid for us to move to Kelowna.  The problem with this fantasy is that it will most likely not occur on its own, and it interferes with reality.  

Yes, this would be great.  Now how do I make it happen?  What can I do instead to reach the same goals?

It turns out the key to making fantasies or day dreams reality is two fold.  You may not even need to do both parts.  One find out what it is you really want.  Two look at what the fantasy is accomplishing and find another way to do it.

One: What is the touch stone?  What do you really want; is it freedom, adventure, security, recognition, or something more concrete a skate board, a trip, to move some where else?  Look at the dream and find out what it is you really need, so you can change it from a dream to a goal.

Two:  What is the fantasy accomplishing?  My most recent fantasy made a huge change that could be complicated, easy.  It did shine a light on things I need to consider.  The day dream took many steps and made them into a few simple ones. 

When things seem overwhelming or impossible we can fantasize about them, or we can break them down.  Take the day dream and find out what we want or need, then break it down to find out how to get it.  Now chances are no one will suddenly appear out of thin air and give me what I want.  If, however, I know what I need I can find an exchange that works.

I do have an article on goal setting here.   For day dreams however it goes back to the steps.  What needs to happen to get what you want?  You need to meet someone, develop some skill, take a first step.  Many things that seem impossible are not.  They just take longer to accomplish.  The key is to step away from a fantasy and look at how to get there realistically.  Don’t give up.

Look at the big steps, and then break those down to smaller and smaller steps till you have a doable starting place.  Spend time focusing on your goal or dream and be open to other opportunities but take action as well.  You may need to do research or take a step back to believe you can get what you’re truly after.  It is worth it because those dreams and fantasies are telling you something.  Break it down to little bits to make it happen, search to find other ways to make it happen,  but seriously make it happen.